Yey more romantic topics. Anyways I'm interested in knowing what your love language is. Here is the PDF version of the quiz, that way, you wouldn't have to give away any e-mails or anything like that. After you have taken the quiz, feel free to share your result here. What are your thoughts on it? Did you have more than one or at least a second place score that is very high?
My results are a two way tie between words of affirmation and quality time. I'm not really the most confident person so when people do affirm me that they do like me and also willing to spend time with me, that is when I'm most loved.
I took this long before and I think it went by Physical Touch>Receiving Gifts>Words of Affirmation>Quality Time>Acts of Service. I usually take the last one for granted, hence why I don't have it very high, and simply being around someone is "quality time". The rest mean a lot to me though.
Quality Time, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts
I agree with the results I got. I'd much rather spend time with a significant other rather than receive things from them, because the quality time is the best gift of them all :^) The other two could be interchangeable as they were both only one point off of each other, but way ahead of the last two.
I got Quality Time > Physical Touch > Words of Affirmation >> Acts of Service >>>> Receiving Gifts. The results make sense for me. I want to be around the person I love and spend a lot of time with them.
Everything else was pretty close together. Except receiving gifts, even though I do appreciate that it doesn't really make me feel as "loved" as the other things.
This was by far my least as well. While it is appreciated and everything and a kind gesture, it comes nowhere near the feeling of the rest of these.
My top two were Quality Time and Physical Touch, which fit me! I love just spending time with my husband doing whatever; playing games, walking, exploring, watching something, anything — and I enjoy the physical touch while doing any of these things, makes me super happy. I'm a cuddly hand-holdy kinda lass =P
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Quality time > words of affirmation > physical touch > acts of service > receiving gifts.
I think this fits me very well. I'm not big on gifts and while they are awesome, I much more care about knowing that the person loves me and spending time with them. A day hanging out with the person I love is worth more than any present I could get.
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For me, Quality Time just barely edged past Words of Affirmation, to the point where I'd consider them to be the two languages I use. It makes sense, considering how much of a shut-in I can be making personal interaction a big deal for me.
As far as things go, receiving gifts or being served somehow always makes me a bit uncomfortable. It always feels somehow one sided when I'm the recipient. It sounds sappy but to me I guess good quality time is one of the most valuable things to me when it comes to a relationship. Money and material gifts are nice, but time is something you can't get back, so spending a lot of quality time with me is something I guess I see as one of the most powerful ways to communicate love and commitment in a relationship.
Also @Ardent and Solar: Lmao same on the physical touch thing. :,^)
I got Quality Time(8)>Words of Affirmation(7)=Physical Touch(7)>Acts of Service(3)=Receiving Gifts(3)
Time is extremely important to me. I like to spend a lot of time with someone I love, whether it's alone on a nice date or with friends. Words and touch are also extremely important, since I like to be held and I love talking. Gifts and acts are nice, but I feel like they're not nearly as important. Really, I just love being with someone!
Like others, I have no IRL experience in love or romance so I chose responses based off of what I presume to be my reactions to non-digital romantic gestures.
Words of Affirmation: 9, Quality Time: 9, Receiving Gifts: 0, Acts of Service: 6, Physical Touch: 6
I'm pretty big on communication and wanting to spend time with those I have strong feelings towards in my life, so I'm not surprised by my results. Though I'm shy, I do love physical touch so that's not a big surprise either (I used to have a problem with hugging but, after getting comfortable with it, I do love hugging my friends and family when I get the opportunity now as it makes me feel closer to them and all fuzzy and warm inside). I am surprised I got 0 points in regards to gifts - I do like gifts, but I guess other romantic gestures just weigh more for me?